However, when it comes to sending your first message to someone it can be hard to think of what to say.
He won't see the scene exactly like you do, but he is capable of visualizing the story you've created with him in it. If he can picture himself in your story, more than likely he will write to you. He doesn't need to know everything about you in this first introduction. Online, you have fewer than 10 seconds to get his attention before he moves on. Try making your profile title catchy, using activities you're involved with to create your online name. Little things like typos can be enough to make men quickly move on to someone else's profile. I wrote things about making love on a beach with my soul mate. Men have told me they see it in every woman's profile. Particularly, don't brag about your out of this world looks. Try not to make demands in your profile about salaries and how you'd like to be entertained at the most expensive restaurants in your area.
x Suzie” A message like the one above shows that you have taken the time to read the person’s profile and are not just contacted hundreds of people with the same message.
By commenting on something that they have written in a jokey way, you are showing that you have a sense of humour and it is also nice to compliment someone’s personality in this way.
The best thing about online dating is the fact that people who join these sites are typically looking for someone who shares mutual interests, goals, desires, etc.
People are looking for compatibility, and not for a one night fling - like you find at a bar (again, this is typically the case, not always).