I don't pretend to understand my preference for women on the masculine side of the gender spectrum anymore than I understand why I am attracted to women in the first place. But that explanation leaves rather a lot of important things out. To be totally fair though I went back and read your original post from the other day and I guess I can kind of why he would have a fragile ego.If you are a and into butches please be so kind to send Me a message. You said you didn't want to have to treat him like he is a genius when he is just a guy.This week’s episode is called “What You Don’t Know About Online Dating.” (You can subscribe to the podcast at i Tunes, get the RSS feed, or listen via the media player above.You can also read the transcript, which includes credits for the music you’ll hear in the episode.) The episode is, for the most part, an economist’s guide to dating online. ) You’ll hear tips on building the perfect dating profile, and choosing the right site (a “thick market,” like Match.com, or “thin,” like Glutenfree Singles.com? You’ll learn what you should lie about, and what you shouldn’t.I would venture to guess that he's filling unmanly right now. Instead he runs around to her place whenever she needs a handyman, he bails her out financially when she runs out of money at the end of the month and babysits the 4 (NON BIOLOGICAL -) of hers while she's out with her new boyfriend.
The problem with online dating is that you can’t see the person’s face when they’re telling you about themselves. I think it’s hard for guys to comprehend the world of online dating from a woman’s perspective. They then flippantly toss out all of those well thought out, carefully crafted messages from most of those poor schmucks, and then they log onto their Facebook accounts to complain to their girlfriends that there are no “good men” left in the world. My point was not that you should have to live like this forever, but that your change could provoke a change in him.Maybe you are treating him like he is "just a guy" instead of "THE GUY" I don't think my wife is an, but I try to treat her like one instead of just a girl.And admit it, you’d love a man who’s a mess, if he likes you. But when he looks towards you for emotional support and love, the same things his own wife, apparently, doesn’t provide him, you end up falling in love, more with his emotional affairs rather than anything else.Relationship – finally possessing the power to actually fire bellicose incompetent alcoholic pieces of crap is one of the best feelings ever. I also confess I don't give a fuck if it's bragging. Perhaps this is accentuated by the fact that butches are and in my particular corner of the universe, but when and wherever they cross my , something within me sits up and takes notice -- because I share the other side of the secret. On one hand you say that you can't imagine leaving, but then on the other you say you don't want to be close to people like that.